Sunday, May 14, 2017

Happy Mother's Day

As I sit down to write my mom a card for Mother's Day I am reflecting on all that she has taught me.  Here are some things that come to mind in no particular order:
1.  Family is everything  
She has always been there for me and raised us to do the same. Just about every decision she has made was based on what would be best for the family.  Her loyalty to family- both near and far is gigantic. 
2.  Life is for the living 
My mom has certainly had her share of tragedy and hardship.  My sister died when she was only 20 and ten years later my mom became a widow to the love of her life.  She could have become a sad lonely widow and no one would have judged her.  But she has always said "Life is for the living."  While she always remembers and honors loved ones who have gone before us, she wakes up ready to make every day count.
3.  If you lose something,  pray to St. Anthony
My mom's faith is very deep and very strong.   From childhood whenever I lost something her response would always be did you pray to St. Anthony?  He always helps me.  Now I find myself giving the same advice to my own children.
4.  Usually when people are mean it is out of jealousy
This one took some time to make sense.  When I was growing up and my mom said this I really did not believe but now that I see similar events through adults eyes I see she was right.  It has helped me not to take hurt personally because usually when someone is being mean it is their own issue, not mine.
5. When you are cooking, the most important ingredient is love. 
One of my students told about the traditional way to make tamales.  It is not just the ingredients but she said everyone needs to gather together with love.  She said the one time they were arguing when they made them they did not turn out.  I believe this.  Because sometimes I will make something with my mom's recipe and it just doesn't taste the same.  There is something about the love she puts into it that always makes it just right.
6.  Laughter can see you through almost every single situation.
My mom tells the best stories and many are to retell a funny teaching story.  Many dinners were highlighted with one of her funny and loved-filled stories.  She taught me empathy and love and a love of storytelling with every story that she told. 

There is a lot more I can say I learned from my mom but this is a good start for now.  Because if I wait any longer Mother's Day will be over!



Circa 1972:  My mom smiling with 5 kids under the age of six!

Sunday, February 12, 2017

This is What Determination Looks Like!

My daughter did not find the sport that brought her joy until she was a freshman in high school.  First we had a long tour of sports.... cross country, soccer, gymnastics, lacrosse (I was even recruited as an assistant coach even though I knew NOTHING about any sport with offense and defense.)  Then in middle school she tried volleyball and track and field.  I began to wonder if there was a sport for her.  When she was in 8th grade, one of her friend's father suggested swimming and she decided to give it a try.  The summer before freshman year she went to a few stroke clinics and learned to do a flip turn.  I wondered if she would stick with it when the real season began- six days a week in chlorine sounded like a demanding schedule.  But with every week she loved it more.  She was not a stand out but the coach explained at the start of the season that anyone with perfect attendance to all practices and meets would letter.  At the end of the 4 month season Laurel was the only girl on the team with perfect attendance.  Over the next summer Laurel again went to some off-season practices and continued to enjoy it.  She still hadn't found her event but just tried whichever race they needed someone for.  About halfway through this season each girl had a private session with the coaches to discuss goals.  Laurel said her goal was to make state.  Her coach said let me crunch some numbers and I will get back to you.  Later that night she texted her and said I think you can do it.  You need to drop 18 seconds in three weeks.  So think of it as 6 seconds a week.  Anyone in swim knows seconds can be tough to knock off, even in a long distance event like the 500 free,  but the coach had the girls visualize meeting their goal.  Laurel closed her eyes and pictured the time she needed for state and just kept picturing it happening in her mind.  At the next meet she dropped six seconds.  Then she dropped nine so going into conferences she needed to drop 2 seconds from her 200 and three seconds from her 500 in order to qualify for state.  Justin, Owen and I left work and school early so we could watch the conference meet.  The 200M free is the second event.  Her split was really fast.  I kept adding the numbers and tried to guess if she would do it or not.  As she came down with her last lap I looked at the clocked, the entire team was cheering and yelling.  She got 2:13.23.  She qualified for state.  I was so happy for her.  99% hard work is what got her there.  It is hard to believe that 18 months ago she had never even done a flip turn and now she is going to state for two long distance events.  What a fun ride it has been this season!

Tuesday, September 20, 2016

Quandary Peak



It is so easy to get sucked into the daily grind of work and chores.  But STOP!!!! As my dad used to say (quoting Mark Twain):  "Never let school work interfere with your education."  It would be quite a treat to head to NYC to see a broadway show on a school day.  Well- I am not quite as spontaneous as my dad but Owen and I wanted to get one more 14er in before the snow covers the mountains.  I looked at the weather forecast and the only way to do it was to miss school.  So.... at 5:00AM Monday morning we headed off to the Quandary Peak Trailhead.  It was such a fabulous day and we had a wonderful hike up to the summit.

Sadly this month I have had a lot of reminders that life can change or end in a heart beat.  First my Uncle Phil died after a long illness, then my friend Matt died very suddenly on a camping trip, then my colleague Jared, along with his wife, died in a tragic car accident and left behind their two year old daughter.  All of these events make you stop and ask what really matters.  And of course the answer is always- time with those we love.  So pick up the phone and call that person you have been meaning to call, make a date with someone you need to catch up with or snuggle up a little tighter with those you love.  Yes I missed a day of work and Owen missed a day of classes but I am going to guess twenty years from now he will still remember the day he went hiking with a goat and you can be sure that whatever we missed at school wouldn't have been that memorable!  Here's to keeping it all in perspective!

Tuesday, June 14, 2016

Farmer Helen

This summer I have created a nice garden.  It is fun and I enjoy the time in the yard.  But I will be surprised if this is cost effective.  So far I have spent the following:

Soil $120 for 2 yards delivered:  I once heard this quote:  "I would rather put a $5 plant in $30 soil than a $30 plant in $5 soil."  I learned the hard way last year that good soil is critical.  Our soil is mostly clay so I got 2 yards of planters soil delivered to mix in with the current soil.

Mulch $200 for 2 yards delivered:  I am really, really good at growing weeds.  Maybe the best in the neighborhood.  I do not like to use chemicals to keep weeds away but all the watering makes more than just the plants want to grow.  So I plant everything and then mulch like crazy.  I like to use Gorilla Hair Mulch because it matts down nicely and mostly stays where you put it.

Water:  Not only do I need to spend a bit watering the plants.  I also use quite a bit soaking the greens and then rinsing the greens as I prepare them to eat.  Hard to know the cost of water because we are on a tiered system.  The first 5,000 gallons of water is only .0024 cents a gallon.  The second tier is .00342 cents a gallon.  I usually never hit the 3rd tier that starts at 15,000 gallons and cost .0042 per gallon.  I like this tiered plan because it encourages conservation- the more you use, the more expensive it gets.

Seeds $12:  I bought radish and cilantro seeds.  I also tried to plant some pepper, lavender and carrots but seed but none of those germinated.

Starter Plants $70:  I bought six tomato starter plants at the farmer's market.  I know I could have gotten these cheaper but there is so much fracking going on near me, I wanted to know exactly where the plants were started and that there were free of fracking soil and chemicals.  Some other plants I got for fun were:  Bok Choy (already harvested- YUM!!!!), Kale (3 kinds), Swiss Chard, Brussel Sprouts, and Celery.

Garden in a Box $70 from  Center for ReSource Conservation:  This is my second year using Garden in a Box.  I love it.  This year I got the Xeric Greatest Hits for my perennial flower garden out front.  I also got the Savory Seasonings vegetable garden.

Ultimately I will say this is a fun hobby.  I will not be harvesting enough to cover the costs but at least I am making good use of the land, learning a little bit about farming and enjoying fresh picked greens.  Here are a couple pictures of the garden so far.  I hope to post and update around harvest time.

Friday, June 10, 2016

Biking in Hygiene

Bad News:  The mountains are still filled with snow which limits hiking choices.
Good News:  While trying to cross train, I learned that I happen live near some fantastic bike routes in Hygiene.  So while I am not wearing biker shorts (and have no plans to do so any time soon,) I am enjoying this new-to-me sport of road cycling.  Here is a video of one of my favorite loops- a 14 mile relatively flat trip that starts and ends right at home.... How lucky are we to live with such great routes right from our house?

Monday, February 15, 2016

Snowshoeing to Chuck's Hut

Since I moved to Colorado I have wanted to plan a hut trip.  So back in August I logged into the 10th Mountain Division Hut Association and looked for a family friendly destination.  Normally it requires a lot more planning than a few months so I  was surprised when I saw Chuck's Hut was available.  Granted it was for a Sunday night but I figured I would follow my dad's advice (via Huck Finn):  "Never let schoolwork interfere with your education."  I asked everyone if they were on board and booked the hut.
Fast forward a few months to mid January when I looked up my reservations.  I noticed a slight problem- our hut trip was for Super Bowl Sunday.  Well- no problem.  Usually we don't even know who is playing.  But as every week got closer it was more and more obvious that the Broncos would be headed to the Super Bowl this year.
Oh well- what's done is done and I was not about to give up our hut trip for a football game.  So we headed to REI, bought a backpack and some freeze dried meals, ordered a radio from Amazon and headed up to Vail Pass.  On our way we stopped at Dam Brewery in Dillon to get a good hot meal before our trek began.  From the trailhead it was 2.7 miles to Chuck's hut.  This does not sound hard but between the wind, the snow, the slight incline and the 10,500 altitude, it was far enough for a family outing.  After about two hours we arrived at the hut.  It was like a little dream in the woods.
And even the Super Bowl worked out fine because we were able to tune it in perfectly on the radio.  Here are some outside views:

And in case you want some more details, here is a short youtube video I made about our trip.  I would certainly tell anyone interested to go ahead and plan your trip- even if it does turn out to be on Super Bowl Sunday!

Sunday, December 27, 2015

Goals Update

Here is my blog post from a year ago with some of my 2015 goals.  I wrote in red how I accomplished them:

Here are some things I hope to do in 2015 (in no particular order.)

1. Make it to my 50th state. About 14 years ago I was up to 49 states and I just have not had reason to visit my final state, Louisiana. Here is hoping this is the year I make it to New Orleans!  Has not happened yet- maybe 2016?

2. Complete an overnight backpacking trip. I don't think I have been backpacking since my Alaskan honeymoon almost 18 years ago!  YES!  Haunch Lake on the west side of RMNP.  AMAZING!

3. Go to more live music- especially a concert at Red Rocks and Rockygrass in Lyons.  YES! Steely Dan at Red Rocks and Rockygrass.  Love both those places.

4. Go on a Xc ski or snowshoe hut trip.  YES-  sort of.... We have a hut booked for next month.

5. Become a Grosvenor Teacher Fellow. The competition is stiff but a girls gotta dream!  NO:(

6. Complete the RMNP Hiking Challenge: In celebration the the 100th Anniversary of becoming a National Park I want to hike 100 miles. I am going to use my friend's Rich and Holly's strict definition of unique miles which means six miles out and back will only count as three miles. In addition, I will make it a goal to get to RMNP at least once a month in order to see it in all the seasons.  YES! This was an excellent goal and we hiked over 220 miles (135 unique miles).  Still many more destinations to enjoy.  

7. Once and for all conquer my sweet tooth- not even sure if this goal is POSSIBLE but I sure do feel better when I stay away from sugar and flour.  YES! NO! YES! NO!  Depends on the day!